Hi, I’m Stef Stuber

What do you get when you cross a severely ADHD Korean adoptee, drop her into suburban white America, and watch her go rogue? You get me.

I’m a 4/6 Generator in Human Design—here to live fully through experience. The joyous, the painful, the chaotic. My life has been a living classroom, rich with wild lessons, deep healing, and more plot twists than I ever signed up for. But every story, every heartbreak, every triumph has shaped me into someone who's here to share the path of self-love, purpose, and radical authenticity.

From a childhood that began in adoption and foster care, to navigating "daddy issues," bar life, trauma, spirituality, and survival—I’ve been forged in fire. I’ve ripped a leg off in Thailand (literally), survived sexual violence, endured a seven-year court case, lost everything more than once, and started over just as many times. I’ve worked in over 85 bars and restaurants, shifted careers four times, and found peace in a home that I created.

Through it all, I kept turning inward and upward—backpedaling through transits, charting astrocartography lines, diving into Human Design, astrology, Bazi, Ayurveda, numerology, and any tool that helped me understand my soul’s blueprint. Not to predict my life, but to guide myself through it with compassion, wisdom, and clarity.

I’m now writing a book that weaves my life story with the cosmic forces that shaped it—a blend of memoir and self-help. This work translates deep astrological and energetic lessons into real-life grit, heartbreak, healing, and humor. It's for anyone who’s ever asked, “Why me?” and needed a reminder that even the messiest path can lead to purpose.

This isn’t just talk. I live it, I study it, and I offer it all back—for anyone navigating their own chaos with a yearning to make meaning of it.

Let’s be about it, together. 🤘

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My Approach

I believe in a three part approach. We start with a real conversation—no pressure, no pretense. Through Human Design, astrology, and other intuitive tools, we’ll explore your energetic blueprint, life patterns, and current challenges. This is where I get to know you—not just what’s happening, but who you are beneath it all.

Connect & Reframe

Once we’ve uncovered your needs and deeper truths, we begin to shift the lens. I’ll help you reframe what’s holding you back and connect you with the right support—whether that’s personalized coaching with me or trusted outside referrals. It’s all about creating aligned momentum.

Empower & Integrate

Together, we’ll build a solution-based path forward—rooted in your design, your values, and your real life. My goal isn’t to keep you dependent; it’s to help you feel strong and sovereign in your healing. I’ll always be here if you need to come back—but ideally, you leave with the clarity and confidence to move forward on your own terms.